1 BEING PHYSICALLY ATTRACTIVE IS A GREAT WAY TO GET ATTENTION. BEING MENTALLY ATTRACTIVE IS THE ONLY WAY TO KEEP IT.
EDUCATE YOURSELF, ADDRESS YOUR RECURRING TOXIC THOUGHTS, DEAL WITH YOUR INSECURITIES, AND LEARN TO BE HAPPY ALONE.
2 NORMALIZE SAYING “NO” WITHOUT NEEDING TO OVER-EXPLAIN YOURSELF.
IF SOMEONE IS OFFENDED BY YOUR BOUNDARIES, THAT’S THEIR PROBLEM.
THE BEST WEIGHT YOU’LL EVER LOSE IS THE WEIGHT OF OTHER PEOPLE’S OPINIONS OF YOU.
3 DON’T SUBSCRIBE TO OTHER PEOPLE’S DEFINITION OF “FUN”.
FUN DOESN’T MEAN :
SOCIALIZING
DRINKING
PARTYING
FUN CAN BE A NIGHT ALONE, GETTING LOST IN A BOOK, A DEEP CONVERSATION, A WALK, CREATING ART, PLAYING MUSIC, OR DOING YOUR WORK.
FUN IS YOURS TO DEFINE.
4 BEFORE YOU GET MARRIED DISCUSS BILLS, PARENTING, WHAT BELIEFS WILL BE INSTALLED IN YOUR CHILDREN, CHILDHOOD TRAUMAS, SEXUAL EXPECTATIONS, FINANCIAL EXPECTATIONS, FAMILY HEALTH, CAREER AND EDUCATION.
LOVE ISN’T ENOUGH.
5 THE AGE OF 15-30 IS THE GOLDEN ERA OF YOUR LIFE.
YOU MAKE FRIENDS AND LOSE THEM TOO. YOU MAKE MISTAKES, CORRECT THEM TOO.
YOU FALL, FAIL, LEARN, REALIZE, YOU HIT REALITY, YOU FALL IN LOVE, AND YOU GET HURT TOO.
YOU LOSE YOURSELF AND EVENTUALLY YOU BECOME STRONGER.
REMEMBER…!
THESE ARE THE BEST YEARS OF YOUR LIFE.
YOU SHOULD UNDERSTAND THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN ENJOYING IT AND RUINING IT.
